United Way Funded Programs Change
Lives:
Big Brothers/Big
Sisters Provide Life-Long Effects
The
life-long effects of youth mentoring programs are embodied in Cathy
Parker and Lisa Neighbor. Recently, they shared their inspirational
story.A phone call from a
telemarketer -- 'for each magazine subscription you buy, a donation will
be made to Big Brothers/Big Sisters' -- inspired Cathy to volunteer for
the organization.
Lisa was a 12-year-old
from a dysfunctional family in Barberton. "My Mom was a paraplegic
after an accident, and because she was having difficulty dealing with
her situation, she wasn't there much for us," Lisa recalled. "Mom did a
wonderful thing though when she signed us kids up for Big Brothers/Big
Sisters."
They
were matched together by a new case manager, Gary Voelzow. When the two
spent time together with Cathy's family, Lisa saw what a normal, healthy
family was like. And while those few hours a week for the two or three
years they were an official 'match' couldn't immediately overcome the
influences of Lisa's home environment, the seed was planted.
Despite making what she
readily admits were bad decisions (dropping out of school and getting
married at 16), Lisa always felt Cathy's gentle nudges trying to get her
back on the right path. Cathy recalled, "We stayed in touch over the
years, and I would always ask if she'd started working on her GED yet.
I knew she was capable of so much more."
And eventually, Lisa
realized it too. She broke away from all the negative influences in her
life and returned to school. Not only did she get her GED, she went on
to college, got her degree in the medical field. She's turned her life
around, and she feels that she and Cathy are now truly sisters. She was
a babysitter for Cathy's children through the years, and now she's
watched them grow up and get married.
After all these years,
Cathy and Lisa still get together on a regular basis. Cathy works for
ExxonMobil here in Akron, and Lisa is a surgical assistant at Aultman
Hospital. Gary Voelzow is now the Executive Director of Big
Brothers/Big Sisters.
And Cathy never
subscribed to those magazines. She made a much bigger commitment.
Pictured in both
photos left to right: Cathy, Gary and Lisa. |